May — Flexibility Without Compromise
Day 123 — 3 May
How Long Will You Limp?
“And Elijah came unto all the people, and said, How long halt ye between two opinions? if the LORD be God, follow him: but if Baal, then follow him. And the people answered him not a word.” — 1 Kings 18:21 (KJV)
Yesterday we learned that certain matters are disputable, that the gospel leaves room for individual conscience in areas where faithful believers may legitimately differ, and that flexibility in those areas is a mark of maturity rather than weakness. Today we encounter the opposite reality with equal force: there are matters that permit zero flexibility, questions that demand a clear answer, and moments in which the attempt to hold two incompatible positions simultaneously produces a paralysis so complete that the person caught between them ceases to move in any direction at all.
Elijah understood this distinction with the sharpest possible clarity, and the words he spoke on Mount Carmel remain among the most confronting in the entire Old Testament, because they expose the particular danger that threatens every person who has learned the art of flexibility: the danger of allowing legitimate adaptability to drift into illegitimate indecision on matters where the gospel requires a definitive stand.
The Hebrew verb פָּסַח (pasa’ch, meaning “to limp,” “to hop,” “to waver between two positions,” or “to pass over without committing to either side”) is the word Elijah used to describe Israel’s posture, and it carries a physical vividness that the English translations often soften. The image is of a person hopping from one foot to the other, never planting both feet firmly on either side, perpetually shifting their weight without ever arriving at a settled stance. This is the posture of someone who has confused flexibility with indecision, who has mistaken the freedom to adapt for the licence to avoid committing, and who has allowed the legitimate practice of bending on secondary matters to bleed into an illegitimate pattern of wavering on primary ones.
Elijah’s name in Hebrew, אֵלִיָּהוּ (Eliyahu, meaning “my God is Yahweh” or “Yahweh is my God”), is itself a declaration of the very commitment he was calling Israel to make, because his identity was already settled in the answer to the question he posed. He was asking them to do what he himself had already done: to plant both feet on the ground of a definitive conviction and to stop limping between two positions that could never be reconciled.
The question עַד מָתַי (ad matay, meaning “until when?” or “how long?”) carries the urgency of a man who understood that indecision on essential matters carries a cost that compounds with every day it persists, because the person who limps between two opinions forfeits the stability that both settled conviction and genuine flexibility require. You cannot flex meaningfully from a position you have yet to occupy, and you cannot adapt your approach to meet another person where they stand if you have yet to determine where you yourself are standing.
The word סְעִפִּים (se’ippim, meaning “divided opinions,” “branching thoughts,” “forked positions,” or “crutches that support neither side adequately”) describes the two opinions between which Israel was limping, and the word itself suggests the image of a branch that has split into two forks, neither of which is strong enough to bear the full weight of the person leaning on it. This is what happens when flexibility on essentials replaces firmness: the person loses the very stability that made their flexibility trustworthy, because the people around them can no longer discern where the person actually stands, and engagement with someone whose essential convictions are unclear produces confusion rather than trust.
The Leader Who Bends on Method While Holding on Outcome
The professional world offers one of the most illuminating parallels for this principle, because the most effective leaders in any organisation are almost always the ones who have learned to distinguish between the outcomes they refuse to compromise on and the methods they are endlessly willing to adapt.
Think of the leader who has been tasked with delivering a critical project that will reshape how their organisation serves its clients. The outcome is fixed: the project must deliver a specific result by a specific deadline, and the quality of that result will determine whether the organisation retains the trust of the people it serves. This is the frame, the non-negotiable, the essential conviction that permits zero wavering. If the leader begins to limp between delivering the project and abandoning it, between maintaining quality and accepting mediocrity, between honouring the deadline and letting it drift, the entire team loses confidence, because the team needs to know that the leader’s commitment to the outcome is settled, definitive, and unshakeable.
Yet within that fixed commitment to the outcome, the leader is endlessly flexible on method. They listen to the team’s ideas about how to achieve the result. They adapt the workflow when new information reveals a better approach. They adjust timelines for individual tasks, redistribute responsibilities, incorporate feedback, and change direction on tactical questions with the ease of someone who understands that the method serves the outcome rather than defining it. The team trusts this flexibility precisely because it operates within the context of an unmovable commitment to the result, and the leader’s credibility on the adaptable questions is sustained by their firmness on the essential one.
This is the pattern Elijah was calling Israel to adopt, and it is the pattern that governs the entire month of May. Flexibility without compromise means planting both feet firmly on the essentials, the character of God, the truth of the gospel, the dignity of every human being made in His image, and then adapting everything else with the creative, responsive, loving flexibility that the art of becoming has taught you to practise.
The Greek γίνομαι (ginomai, “to become”) that anchored April’s exploration carries forward into May with a critical qualifier: you γίνομαι (ginomai, “become”) all things to all people from a position of settled conviction on the things that matter most, and it is that settled conviction that gives your becoming its credibility, its trustworthiness, and its power. The person who limps between two opinions on essential matters will find that their flexibility on secondary matters loses its integrity, because flexibility without a fixed point of reference is indistinguishable from shapelessness, and shapelessness serves neither the person you are becoming for nor the gospel you carry.
Elijah stood on Carmel and asked a question that every practitioner of flexibility without compromise must answer before the month goes further: where do you stand on the matters that define you? Have you planted both feet, or are you still פָּסַח (pasa’ch, “limping”) between סְעִפִּים (se’ippim, “divided opinions”), hoping that the ambiguity will protect you from the cost of commitment while still allowing you to enjoy the benefits of engagement?
The people on Carmel answered Elijah with silence, and the silence itself was the most damning response they could have given, because silence on essential matters is its own kind of answer: it tells the world that you have yet to decide, and a person who has yet to decide on the essentials has nothing stable from which to flex on anything else.
Plant your feet. Settle the essentials. And then, from that settled ground, flex with all the creativity, warmth, empathy, and courage this month will teach you.
Declaration
I stand with both feet planted on the essentials of my faith, and I refuse to פָּסַח (pasa’ch, “limp”) between סְעִפִּים (se’ippim, “divided opinions”) on matters that the gospel has already settled. My flexibility on secondary matters draws its credibility from my firmness on primary ones, and the people around me can trust my adaptability precisely because they know where I stand on the things that define me. Like אֵלִיָּהוּ (Eliyahu, “my God is Yahweh”), my identity declares the conviction my life embodies, and I carry that conviction into every room I enter with the courage of someone who has stopped wavering and started walking. I am immovable where the gospel requires me to be immovable, and I am endlessly creative where the gospel gives me freedom to adapt, and the distinction between the two is the very foundation upon which flexibility without compromise is built. Today, I plant my feet, and from that settled ground I move toward every person who needs what I carry.
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